i have had sudden pain in my lower skull neck and the from of my chest and lower back. i went to my dr and she looked at the past reason i has visted her office, insomnia and erratic sleep patterns then chronic sudden headaches , and extreme lack of energy then i went for the pain. she started "testing triggers" and said she believes i have fm but is going to do some other blood tests and mri to rule out anything else. since the diagnoses i have had a very concerned thought of how am i suppose to live the rest of my life with this. I am married and already cant have children but planned to adopt, who is going to let me adopt a baby now and if they do how can i interact and be a proactive parent. I work full time plus some as a manager at a finance company. I am very scared and dont have any support from my family. My husband's mom was diagnosed with fm when he was 17 but she ended but dying because of cancer and he has been very disconnected since my diagnoses. i feel hopeless. i dont what i can do to ease the pain and live life again..HELP!!