Hello, I am the youngest of three brothers. I'm 25 years old. Our mother was diagnosed with Alzheimers approx 10 years ago. Our father has taken care of her through everything. In most cases, he went well above and beyond the call of duty. Recently, it became too much for him and we had to make the decision to place her into a home. She has everything done for her and is being well taken care of. Shortly ( within a few weeks ) after having her placed into the home, our father found a friend, or what started out as a friend. He now spends most of his time with her. He sat down with us at the beginning and we agreed to certain conditions such as her moving in with Dad while our mother was still alive. He agreed that this wouldn't happen. This has changed drastically and now she's going to be moving in with him. We recently we to his house and were also surprised to find pictures of her plastered all over the place, yet there were no pictures of Mom anywhere. We know he still loves our mother ( that's not in dispute ). If you confront him about things that bother you, his answer is always the same, "Life is too short and I don't want to wait anymore." or "I could be dead in two years, I need to act now." Dad is 70 years old and Mom is 65. Dad's girlfriend is 61. As far as I'm concerned, this is morally wrong. I think it shows a lack of respect for our mother if he does this. He doesn't see it that way though. Has anyone else had to deal with anything like this or have any suggestions ? Thanks for taking the time to read this message. Josh.