abused by many

Discussion in 'Spirituality/Worship' started by robin, Jul 16, 2002.

  1. robin

    robin New Member

    TO PEPSIGIRL (OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT
    FROM ABUSE BOARD.)

    I KNOW THE LORD WANTS ME TO FORGIVE HIM
    AND LEAVE ANY REVENGE UP TO THE LORD AS
    HE STATES, "REVENGE IS MINE" SAYS THE LORD.
    I ALSO HAVE STAYED FOR BENEFITS I MIGHT
    NOT FIND SO EASILY BY LEAVING; HE PAYS
    FOR ROOF OVER MY HEAD, MY FOOD, UTILITIES,
    MY HEALTH AND DENTAL COVERAGE ETC AND HE
    IS MY LIVE IN COOK AS HE LIKES TO COOK.
    BUT SINCE I HAVE STOPPED EVEN LIKING HIM
    IT TAKES PRAYER AND AN OCCASIONAL TRIP TO
    MY THERAPIST TO TALK OUT MY HURTS AND
    BITTERNESS SO IT WON'T EFFECT MY FAMILY OR
    POISON MY SYSTEM. BUT ITS HARD TO WAKE UP
    DAILY TO SOMEONE YOU KEEP ONLY FOR CERTAIN
    BENEFITS...BUT NO RELATIONSHIP, NO LOVE,
    AND THE PERSON'S ARROGANCE, ATTITUDES TOWRDS
    YOU ETC.
    JUST DIDN'T WANT YOU TO THINK I SPEND MY LIFE
    WILLING TO HATE AND TAKE REVENGE. I DON'T.

    FOR MORE TALK OFF THE BOARDS I CAN BE
    REACHED AT; BOBBINROBIN41@AOL.COM :>)

    ROBIN
  2. allhart

    allhart New Member

    frist of all your in my prayers ,2nd call a divorce lawyer about filling for divorce and getting him removed from the house,3,go to the bank take all the money out and close the account open one in just your name
    4,call all the utillity companys have the accounts put in just your name ask for pass words so he cant shut everything off,5 report cridet cards stolen so he cant run up any debts.just dont spend the rest of your life like this please this is one thing you do have the power to change once he is out of the house you will feel so much better and your health may even start to improve.dont worry about how to pay the bills a judge will most likely order your husband to continue paying them during the divorce also ther are many places that will help pay your bills,i neever belived in divorce until i realized what h--- my life had become,
  3. Shirl

    Shirl New Member

    Thank you for your kindheartedness, and thank you for brings these to the worship board, we will be praying for the lady and for you also.

    You take care, you are a lovely kindhearted christian lady.

    God must have many blessings in store for you too.

    Shalom, Shirl