This was an eye opener for me in so many ways, and explained the ellusiveness my husband always had.......wondering if I was just imagining things, etc. Wondering if I was the problem, putting the blame always on myself. Thank goodness there's always the internet to research things. I've never received understanding for everything associated with FM/CFS, and over the years of dealing with everything I find I've got a HUGE amount of anger built up towards him. I'm positive this constant stress contributes greatly to how I feel. I'm 68 and too old and too incapable of living on my own. Some days I can't hardly function or get to the store. Anyone else involved with a passive aggressive significant other? I would be interested in hearing how others cope with this.