Your ex, your life, and the health issues that seem to always hit you. Yes, you did the right thing in getting him out of your life. That's what I want at this stage in my life....peace. I started giving things to the thrift store last year....I mean big time. Things that I had collected and loved but I realized if I moved/downsized I needed to lighten up. My husband just stood at the sidelines watching all that went every other day to charity. I told him I was giving things away because down the road we would be moving on. Typical fashion for him....he never said boo about anything, just retreated back to his own little world. He's got a terrible habit and I've called him on it so many times. We all have conversations in our head (that's normal) but when he's outside doing something (even just sweeping) I see his lips moving when he thinks he's not being observed! I told him he better not do this at work!!!!! Personally, I think he's angry at me or the world in general but denies the whole thing.