Hi all, Thanks again for all your support in the past. I am at witts end these days and tempted to end this relationship. I take my cues completely from him and never pressure him to see me etc. He is housebound with CFS and as a result hardly lets me see him. We talk all day throughout the day but we rarely get personal contact (once every three weeks if I'm lucky). I accepted this -- when I thought no one else was seeing him either. Last night he threw a dinner party for 10 people (all family) and I didn't get an invite (I've yet to meet his family and we've been going out for 6 months)! He was having a good day I'm sure but I feel really cheated! Am I right to feel so hurt? Or should I be more understanding of the limitations this DD places on him and recognise that he needs to see his family too. I am temtped to break up with him over this but I wanted your advice first, to make sure I wasn't being rash and closed-minded regarding his capabilites. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated!