I had a birthday in august. My brother in law, who was like a big brother to me had passed away at that time. So, I had no birthday. I received a card and money from one daughter, a card and gift card from my son in October and nothing from the daughter that I babysit for free and run down each morning to pick my grandson up. This daughter has a Christmas Eve birthday coming up. I know I shouldn't look for rewards or gifts, but it hurt that she never acknowledged my birthday. I was thinking of saying or emailing her......."I think I will get you for your birthday what you got me for mine?" What do you think?