I have grandsons, age 8 and 9. they are a terror. I have a mobile home and they actually stand on my sofa, they race around the house, won't sit for dinner. Are loud and are destructive and think it's all funny. My other daughter just bought a home and they went over to see it, she is moving in, and they ran through it, stood on her baseboard heaters, almost broke the ceiling fan light, left the dog out front where there is traffic. The parents stand and watch and don't say a thing. The parents talk how boys are boys, and criticize teachers and bus drivers that correct them. So, now we have Christmas coming and my daughter doesn't want to have the family in because of the boys, my son, who has a new home doesn't want them so they don't know what to do. they want us over, but do not want to invite my daughter with the boys. Who should tell them that we all are not wanting to do Christmas for the family because of these boys? I don't want to hurt my daughter. It's her husband that should be a father and discipline them also. My daughter is the breadwinner of the family. She also is the one that takes care of the boys when she is not working plus does all the housework and managing the family. Suggestions? Anyone ever been through this?