I'm 45 years old with FM and feel so out of date. Although people tell me I look much younger than my age, which is very nice of them, but I feel as though I do not have the energy, patience or tolerance for anything modern. What I mean by that is, I do not "text" people, I have too much brain fog for that and I find it very annoying and sometimes rude, LOL. I do have a plain cell phone that I use for emergencies only. I just got a home computer back in 2007, before that I was using my sister's computer to go on this site. I have no idea what a blackberry is, I can't download music from my computer, way too complicated for me. Facebook would drive me crazy. Although, I love this site very much and feel as though I can get so much feedback from all you wonderful people and just be myself. I couldn't operate an I-Pod if you paid me. (what the heck is that dumb thing anyway, LOL) I need to update my wardrobe, but since taking medications years ago, it left me with a weight gain that I just can't stand, and the older I get the harder it is to lose this weight. I feel like I'm "out of touch" when it comes to clothing. I used to wear nicer clothes years back before the weight gain and I felt I had a sense of style, not anymore. I have no idea what would look nice on me, I concentrate so much on trying to help my FM, such as chronic pain, fatigue, mild depression, sleep issues, that I just feel so out of touch with the modern life of people who don't have to concentrate so much on a chronic illness. I can tolerate "YouTube" but only for a short period of time, how pathetic, LOL, I'm trying to find some humor in all of this. I probably left out a whole host of other modern things, but unfortunately, I don't know about them Does any of this make sense? Or, am I hopelessly "Old Fashioned" Hugs to all Chelz.