My daughter who is 13 has CFS/FM and is in counseling to deal with issues she is experiencing at a young age because of this DD. The psychologist explained to me that she is actually grieving because she lost something that meant a lot to her (competitive swimming) at age 11 and it was not by her choice as when kids drop out of something because they want to. She had to. Does anyone know of a good book (for me) that deals with non-death related grief such as this? Thanks!