Hi does anyone here come from England? I'm having a bad week and really need to find a good doctor. Been ill since I was 8, now nearly 25 and had enough. I've changed jobs as couldn't cope with the hours I was working and I felt a big difference but this week I haven't been in work for two days as my back has totally ceased up. Its crunching and cracking like no business. Been laid up in bed as nothing is making it better. I wouldn't normally moan as I've come to live with my pains but the back pain is the one I just can't cope with at all. It hurts to lie down, it hurts to sit, it hurts to stand its just blooming irritating. The stupid thing is it was starting to feel a lot better. I've started a relationships with a wonderful man and last night we got close (shall we say) when there was an awful crunch which resulted in me lying in agony and having to move to lie on the floor cause the pain was so bad. And now I'm back in bed again just because I want to have a little love in my life. How to get this man to see that I'm not useless and make sure he doesn't get scared to get close again. He's now going to have a major complex about it now as I'm sure he felt to blame for hurting me. I've had serious relationships before but they've always started on a good day so only had to deal with the not tonight honey it hurts too much after dating for a while not on the first time you try it. Has anyone had to deal with this and if so do you know a way to explain without coming over all serious?