Hello All, I'm new and was reading about CFS since that is what I'm diganosed with. I was reading the articles in the library. Balance thats too funny. I see that as unobatinable goal or dream. I have 3 kids ages 11, 10, and 8. On those feel good days which are rare i feel the need to catch up on laundry, actual cook a full meal for my family ect. Or even take the kids out to a movie or the zoo. And yes i do pay for it for the next few days or weeks. How do u find balance and not over do on those feel good days? I took the kids to my sister-in-laws farm for the 4th of July it was and 8 day vacation and i feel still drained from it and my husband has vaction time coming up and I'm not ready for it.Any suggestions on pacing ones self? cause i have no clue on how too.