OHG!!!! Thank you so much, 2painful4words, for your response to Fibrojewel (I think). I started laughing so hard when I read how you explained the "bless your heart - ever had a massage" thing, I almost fell off my chair. You certainly have a way of "painting" a picture; I can just picture the doc's tone of voice and your reaction. It's just such a classic WWWWHHHAAATTT? thing that it struck me as funny and I certainly needed that today. Maybe I'm just really feeling "loopy" today. These kind of experiences are so "painful" at the time, but if we can laugh afterwards with others that understand how it feels at the time, maybe that helps. Take care.