i am 21 years old and i have been going to the doctor on and off for the past 8 years with all these pains, memory problems, tiredness (not even the right word it is way beyond that!), the restless legs. i have been told by my family and doctors that there is nothing wrong with me and it is all in my head. i have been sent to therapists so they could figure out whats going on. i was told about a week ago i have fibromyalgia and i got a second opinion yesterday. the doctor is still doing test for other things but i feel so relieved i am finally get some answers. my husband is in the military and is gone all the time and we have two young kids so i feel i have no support from anyone! my family and husband still think its not a big deal. am i over reacting to all this pain? how can i describe how i feel to them to make them understand what i am going through?