I am just wondering if I'm about to start pre-menopause. I'm 43, have never had irregular periods in my life, and am now over 2 weeks late (definitely not pregnant and not under any undue stress at the moment). I'm having all the symptoms that I normally have - aching limbs, exacerbated costo, panicky feelings, feeling breathless and blown up, and my boobs have been sore for nearly 3 weeks now. Feels like it's going to start but doesn't. I always have mini fibro flares the week before my period starts and this one has lasted 3 weeks to far. Feel like I;m about to explode and am extremely irritable and uncomfortable. Have any of you experienced similar? If this is what the menopause is going to be like I don't think I'm going to be able to stand it!!!