When a doctor doesn't understand and says some things, I often can't help starting to tear up or cry. However is it worth going back to see a doctor and looking stupid in front of them, if I think they can help me? I feel stupid if I'm nearly in tears or in tears. There is one doctor I have in mind who seems very smart and knows that fibro is serious and that I have it and/or other problems. This doc is willing to spend time on a patient, so I want to go back, but his manner upsets me. There was one in the past where I stuck it out and the doctor stopped thinking i was just a nutcase. I know I will also have this situation in the future. Is it worth going even though they will ask things and suggest things, and I'll look stupid in front of them?