I have a friend whom I have known for about a year now. She is one mom of one of my son’s friends. We have become extremely close over the past year – she has become very special to me, since I rarely see my friends from childhood that often anymore. Sometimes I just need a girlfriend to talk to since dh doesn’t understand a lot. Anyway, apparently I must have done something (I have no CLUE what it may be) to upset her. She had left me a VM message on my cell that I didn’t get because the VM was messed up on the phone. Then another time she sent me an email which I didn’t get right away since I only check it every few days. Also when she has noticed that I am getting closer to one of the other moms, she will immediately start doing things to sort of “take that person away” from me – just like back in high school. It is totally juvenile behavior, and no one owns me! She did not bring her son to my other son’s b-day party for some reason, and never bothered to call and RSVP or anything. I have left her messages and sent emails and she hasn’t responded. I have no idea why……I just would like to know. I became so close to her….I shared things that I should not have, and who knows what kind of stuff she may spread around the neighborhood? All I can say is, I have been hurt and betrayed for THE LAST TIME!!! I will NEVER, EVER allow anyone close to me again. I was stupid to allow this one too…..perhaps I will never try to help anyone again. We are in our 30’s and far too old for this nonsense. Has anyone ever had a friend do this to them and never know why or what they did wrong? I feel better now that I have vented. ANy advice?