Hi. My husband has depression, and has had it for a very long time. This winter, he is in the worst depression I have ever seen... and today... unfortunately, I was really mean to him. I did the things that the depression websites say not to do (i.e. called him lazy). I just need some ideas on how to cope with this. We have a toddler, who my partner is unable to play with due to his depression, and he is sleeping until noon most days (then he leaves for work)... and is very disconnected. I don't mean to be self-focused... the purpose of this message is to ask if anyone has any ideas on how I can redeem myself, so that he sees me as supportive... Jeeze... This is so tough. I feel so badly for him ~ and now even worse, because he is feeling more alone then ever after my little fit. Any ideas?!?!