hi i need some encouragement. about a month ago i noticed i was entering a "fatigue" flare. those are worse than the pain ones for me. at least with the pain, i can get up and do for my child and myself. when in fatigue i cannot do anything. i tried telling my husband to slow down and help me so i wouldn't end up flat on my back. he wouldn't. he just doesn't get it. i have been ill for 8 years but he just doesn't get it. needless to say, i have had a severe flare with ear infection for 3 weeks now. i have barely made it. my husband still wouldn't slow down to help. he asked what i would do if we divorced or he became disabled. that is what he feels i should do since he "can't" slow down to help. honestly, i don't know how i would make it. please send me some encouragement. i have a flare which has left me unable to walk around for more than 5 or 10 minutes. i am so scared. i feel so lonely. WHY WON'T MY FAMILY HELP ME?