is it normal to feel like u are coming down with a flu all the time but never actually get one! Totally freakin sore all over, exhausted, weak slightly swollen lymph node but thats it. Temp is like 96.6, NO runny nose, sneezing, waterny eyes, nothing! Its always a wild card from one day to the next. wHATS NORMAL AND WHATS NOT? My dad is also starting to show signs...but he is a diabetic who is in denial and WONT take his meds or go to any doc appts or anything and he eats candy like its halloween every day.