Hi! I am new here and to Fibromyalgia. I've had lupus since I was 5 years old and I am now 32 years old. This year what I thought was my lupus was getting worse wasn't - I was developing fibromyalgia. That was a bit hard to take, especially as I am Mom to a very active two year old and my husband is deployed in Iraq for a year. My puzzling question is: with lupus I am suppose to get lots of rest when having a flare up - but with fibromyalgia I need to exercise. How the heck am I to combined the two? I am sure the answer is obvious......but let's just chuck this one up to a brain fog. lol.... Thanks.