In the stay at home mom thread, someone suggested using FlyLady to help get organized. I just joined and already the info is great. It really starts you off slowly. One thing at a time. One day at a time. I highly recommend checking this out to anyone who needs help with time management or organization. It is FREE and easy to join. You do get lots of emails at first, but instead of being overwhelming, it is comforting to know that i can finally take some control over the chaos that is "normal"