I appreciate your response. Maybe you can tell me how to reply directly to a response. I tried to hit the reply button after your response but got back to my orginal post, so I didn't know if I would get to you or not. I give my condolances regarding your mother. I know what it means to lose a mother. I have lost both of my parents and both of my brothers. I have no other siblings. I guess that also makes it hard because I would love to be able to sit and talk wiht them about this. I have read other messages from you to other members and have always appreciated your compassion and warmth. God bless you. Your words were so encouraging.