My husband and my mother are the only two people I can complain to. This woman at work told me that I need to read that new book Secrets. She said that if I just said I was fine, I would be fine. Not only did that negate how I was feeling but put the onus on me. Now I need to feel guilty, because it's my fault because I don't feel positive enough!! The same women told me that I just need to have colonics done, because it is all those years of backed up junk in my system that has made me get fibromyalgia.