I have been living with this pain for over 3 years.I went through all the tests and I finally got sent to a rheumatalogist .I had to wait 4 months to get in to see him and this is what I was told in a matter of about 7 min. I was told I have fibro. He more or less told me he was sorry,try to reduce your stress and there is no magic pill and nothing we can really do.He basically told me its in my head and I have some built up anger I wont let go of,thats why I hurt. I was so upset, I cried all the way home.I called my doctor and asked if he could please find me a diffrent rheumatologist.I dont know if they are all like this,but I cant belive there is nothing that can be done to help reduce my pain. I refuse to just give up.I dont want to quit work,even though most days are hard.I try to exerzise everyday,but thats hard somedays to.I try to take care of my self and doing everthing they tell me to do.I just refuse to let this awful pain win,but I really think I am losing the battle somedays. I am just really depressed and yes I am very angry that I have to live with this pain for the rest of my life and there is nothing anybody can do for me.I am sure all of you have been here or are here. It affects every part of your life and nobody understands what we go through everyday.I dont remember a day where I woke up and did not have some kind of pain. I know I am probably feeling sorry for my self.I actually thought once I actually had a name and a diagnois I would feel better,but now I only feel worse.