Hi to everyone. Those of you who have read my posts on the board, may know by now that I am in a toxic relationship(spouse), and am awaiting results from a biopsy(appointment 02/21). During this past week, I have done a lot of quiet contemplation. I have decided that I am going to strike out on my own very soon here. I have not told spouse about my decision as yet, as it is only a week since the last confrontation, and I seriously don't want to push him over the edge. He has anger issues, and I am frightened of him. anyway, I am looking for advice from anyone who has gone thru this before. thank you.