not sure how to start......my DH is freaking me out. Marrieed 25 years. For the beginning of my illness, it was, it's all in your head (4 years of this). After he heard the rheumy say it is FM. He sorta begin to believe me. Anyway, I was approved for disabiliy, and now he messes with me, about, evreything.. "you sleep too late", you stay up too late, you don't do the laundry enough, etc. I'm sorry ya'll this is not my thing to whine but I feel like I'm gonna "clobber him". Sorta scary. I just had to get this off my chest! And for those of you that know my "son story", he blames that on me too.