Ok, I have chronic rib pain from my fibro ok? My father isn't doing well since he lost my mother in March of this year. My dad is 78. My sister who is not working and has a alcholic boyfriend and plays golf all the time and drinks all the time with her boyfriend can't find time in her busy schedule to help my dad with things! I do the best I can but I am so exhasted working a forty hour week and dealing with this dreaded disease. My father depends on me for everything and it is so hard. He makes me feel so guilty for not helping more. It is stressing me out. I lost my mother too. I can't do everything for everyone anymore. I have had it.