Hi dear friend, Just finished reading your second post with new info. on the special thread about your son's situation. First I wanted to say, You need to watch your high blood pressure! I know that you're gearing up for the battle which is the right thing to do. You need to stay strong and centered. I know easier said than done, but I'm concerned about your BP. And I can hear your adrenaline racing, and why? Because I'm exactly the same way. LOL Tomorrow, I'm going to call a place for special prayer - a convent actually where I have many special friends. They take prayer requests and will pray for 2 weeks straight. Man, these women are powerful prayer warriors! It will add another strength to our fantastic prayer group here. Am also going to ask for prayer for me - I'll share it with you, after you get through this first crisis. Dear Hanginin, SING your hymns!!! THey are your strength and will focus your mind and energies. Keep singing them. You now have lots of prayer behind and with you and your son and husband!!! And, your health has improved lately, thank God! So, You are the payee! At least that is one thing clarified. Do not blame yourself for being sick, dear friend. Remember Fight's post on forgiveness. Practice that, so your mind and heart will not be churning out energy in the wrong direction! So now, you have his food money. That is one step. Just thinking out loud, but if the con threatens you on Wed; maybe you should run outside yelling for someone to call the police. I'm thinking of building up grounds for a restraining order. But you will have to see at the time which is better for your BP. Everyone will be in prayer for you to make a decision based on God's guidance. I'm going to read your post again for more details, but you have to take one step at a time, after looking at the whole situation. I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this, but we're not going to give up!!! Powerful blessings sent to you, many ((hugs)), and much love!