I have a lot of the symtoms that someone with Lupus has. I think I'm having a Flare-up. I thought I was going crazy because I was feeling so bad. My hair started falling out, the sunlight bothered my eyes outside, headaches...I don't usually get them this bad, IBS, cold sores in nose and on my mouth, joint pain that is soooo bad, hot and cold flashes, hardtime sleeping due to pain and getting to hot flashes, skin breaking out more now than when I was a teenager. I'm 45 years old. I'm so tired and I never seem to get enough sleep or sleep to much and doesn't feel like I've slept at all. I went to the hospital ER because I was feeling so bad. Now just waiting on the blood test and my sister told me about this website to check it out to see if anyone could help me.