I have been with my husband 12 years, and have been married a year and a half. We are at the point of seperation. My husband is a police officer and has control issues. I can't get him to show any emotion about anything. Well, he does show anger. He works 2 jobs and tells me nothing about what he does. I have to pry it out of him. I am an open book. I tell him everything and he hurts me with it when it is convenient for him. He tells me he only tells me things that he thinks i can handle. He says he never cheated on me but recently I went in his bag and found a picture of 2 girls topless on a boat and they were going at it. I kept it from him for 3 days so i can figure out how to approach him. When I finally did he was so angry that I kept it from him. We still arn't talking. He said this would have never happened if I didn't go through his stuff. I feel the only way i know anything about him is if I snoop. I know he is doing something wrong but I cant put my finger on it. I can't deal with it anymore. Should I stay or should I go?