Just an update. On my own and loving it. I cannot stress enough the importance of getting away from toxic people. Although I am in a flare right now, generally sppeaking, I feel better on my own. Ex was just making me sicker. Finally found an adult chat service that I will begin working for pretty soon here. Just need to get my voice back, as I am struggling with laryngitis presently. do take good care of yourselves. Remember, nobody has the right to make you feel like crap. blessed be!