Hi Everyone! I'm new here and I'm so glad I've found you all! I have FM/CFS, (diag. in 99) and was recently diagnosed with Trigeminal Neurolgia, which has been the most debilitating for me. Two years ago I won my SSD case, so now I just work a minimal of just about 20 hours a month at home, my boss is kind enough to allow this. My question is regarding bladder problems. For 4 years I have been in and out of urologist's offices and still can't seem to get my bladder working! I've had my urethra dilated 2x, and I'm now on Ditropan XL and still no luck. When outside my home, my main concern is finding the next restroom, (which I hate doing) because the frequency is unbelievable. Has anyone had this problem too and how have you dealt with it?? I'm also 45 and from what I've read, you can have bladder problems when you begin Menopause, which I really haven't done yet, but I'm worried that my bladder will be even worse when that happens. I look forward to any advice/suggestions you may have! Thanks for your input!!