I started another post. Hope you see it. How is your Mom doing? I am glad that you where able to find a good home close to you. I also found a reply that you made on one of your posts, where I had told you that my husband had to ge emergency guardianship on his mother. The reason was that the Dr. said that she could not make decisions on her own and that she needed to be evaluated (mentaly). We where lucky enought to get it done on New Year's Eve because there was another emergency guardianship so they opened on of the court rooms at the courthouse. Unfortuantely after everything was done, and the Dr. basicly changed his mind. She left the hospital went to the nursing home where my father-in-law was, hanked him out of the home. After my husband refused to take them back to Florida, she found a friend that took them back. When the Dr. said his mind, the guradianship was revoked. My FIL passed away on July 13 of last year. My MIL passed away on Sept. 12 of last year. It was finally determined that she had lung cancer and it had went to her brain. If the Dr. here had stuck with what he said and they had ran more tests it may have been found sooner. She told other family members that my husband put her in there and forgot her. We where up there everyday. When she really started to get bad in Florida, she called and we went to Florida. This time before we even got there she had turned every thing over to him, and he talked to the Drs. Thery gave her 6 months. We got there on September 1 with intentions of getting her well enough to come back to Indiana. (All of her remaining family was in Indiana) She took a turn for the worse and was gone on the 12th. She was a very cold woman. My husband stood beside her bed and told her that he loved her. She was still rational at that time. She made the comment that she had to use the bathroom. Needless to say this tore my husband up. My Daddy is doing pretty well. He got out a little bit today, he was tired but it was good for him, he got to see some of his friends. He is eating well. I asked him today if he needed anything and his repy was "nothing but a new set of lungs" I am paying for all of the trips to the hospital, and the cleaning. I hurt so bad today and cannot concentrate. I hope that you are doing ok. What all is wrong with your Mom? How long will she be in the Nursing Home? So this is so long. God Bless; Pa, How are you doing?