Can someone help with experience strength and hope. I want to be a good wife to my husband. He hurts all the time. We are slowly loosing our business. I am scared. He keeps holding on and working even though he struggles to get out of bed. He is so different now. His personality is changing. He is angry, short tempered, without any patience. He is such a sweet kind man with a strong faith in Christ. Our family is blended and that alone is a struggle. His ex is on crack/alcohol and my ex is alcoholic. We have been in Alanon with oor kids for years. My husband is there tonight. The kids are scared. Any one out there?? Do you understand? How can I help my husband without driving him crazy??