How do you all deal with family and friends that just don't seem to understand why you are too tired at times to do certain things? I recently got approved for SSDI, for which I am very thankful. It just hurts so much when I tell a friend or relative I'm too tired to go here and there with them and they say oh you are too young and your a lady of leisure. You shouldn't be tired. I don't want to start explaining my condition so I just say nothing. How do you cope so folks don't think we are just lazy. Thanks for reading this.