What do you do when you feel like you are not good enough for the things you want in life? I have been unemployed since April 2008 and just had my son in December. I have been looking for work non stop for 3 months and have not even had a successful job interview. I feel discouraged that I will not be able to find a job that can help support my children. I feel like a retard because I lost my good job and now we don't even live paycheck to paycheck. Without a job, I am useless. Without money coming into the home, I might as well be invisible. I am a horrible mother and wife to allow my family to suffer like this. I have applied for 80 jobs since November with only 2 results and they are almost dead ends. How am I supposed to feel when I look in our cabinets and we have no food and no snacks for the kids? I am so depressed that we are poor and barely surviving that I feel like I am not worth it to have a good job anymore. I have to suffer and feel ashamed and watch life pass us by. How do you remedy this?