The reason I am asking is because it is ruining mine. All I hear is how I am not the girl he married, he misses the girl who could do everything, ect. Well, so do I. This was not my choice to become sick. I was dx'ed 3 months after we got married. I know he has regreted every day since then. I know the end of the road is coming soon for our marriage. Too much has been said and damage has been done. I am interested on how others have handled this in their lives? How does their spouse/partner handle it?