hi i just need some support in this. my husband and i have lost everything because of my illness. we just lost our house. God blessed us, though, because we moved into one much better than what we owned. my dilemma is what to do about working... we are so far in the hole. i am trying to make it as a real estate agent, but that takes some money. without the proper capital i can't always do what i need to for my business. but that isn't really the problem my husband has caught a whiff of what i could make in it and puts a little pressure on me to keep going at it. but somedays i cannot get out of bed. i know he is counting on me to help with the household expenses but i am usually too tired or in too much pain to do anything. i just left my career in another area and know it will be difficult to replace my salary. how do i make him understand that i am trying everyday? i have told him not to count on me to help with the bills, but later he always mentions how he counted what he thought i would make. someone please help me. i feel so alone in this. i fear that he may leave me and i will be homeless if i don't find a way to help hiim with the bills.