My husband was recently diagnosed with stomach cancer. He had most of his stomach removed; but, is doing very well. All of his blood tests;and, scans, including PET scan came back negative. Surgeon is quite confident that he got all the cancer out; but, oncologist wants to do at least 6 months of aggresive chemo;and, radiation to make sure cancer won't return. I have suffered from CFS most of my adult life(am 67 yrs old now). I did the best I could to help and support my husband through his surgery;and, hospitalization; but, just can't do any more. I'm am now expected to forget all about my health problems;and, take him for his treatments;and, MD appts. even though he is actually in much better shape that I am. We end up having arguments about this;and, I end up feeling very guilty. Anyone have any suggestions on how I can do all that is expected of me without collapsing myself? I love my husband very much;and, certainly, want him to be well; but, I'm feeling worse and worse, both physically and mentally, every day.