I read about some of you who have small children and even had them after getting sick. This is hard for me to understand cuz fatigue and "the stupids" are my biggest problems. I would never allow myself to be responsible for a child under 5. When the stupids hit I would not trust myself to be able to make an emergency decision. When I am really tired I will drop my toothbrush severl times when cleaning my teeth and have dropped hot cups of tea because my grip just goes away. I have no control over when the tired and stupids come and go. How do you manage if you have small children???????????