My husband was JUST diagnosed with depression...but way after "shit hit the fan" with us. I was with him for three years where I sort of knew something was painful, and it just manifested itself to where it got totally ugly in July. I became violent with him because he became SO IMPOSSIBLE to live with. He went for 2 months not really saying anything to me about his feelings and then one day announced that he wanted to be on his own. We have sold our home, moved in different apartments and he wants a divorce because "he can't go back". He is not on medication yet because he just went to the doctor for the first time last week. He told me today to give up any hope of us working things out, tells me I deserve a better live, too. I have tried to remain strong with him, and he sees it as "I have moved on and am doing so well without him" and that I was in a "no win" situation with him. I feel so lost and sad. I don't know if these signs of pessimism are a sign of his disease or if I should just get divorced. One day he is nice and sweeet to me, the next day, he just wants away from me. Is there anyone out there who can help me? I am so tired and confused. Thank you.