so my wonderful husband said to me yesterday. He does not understand of course what I am going thru. But he does try to let my nasty, snide, unfeeling comments slide off his back. And i honestly try to not be this way, but sometimes I say things that are not so nice, and I don't even realize that i have been so mean. But if i look into his great eyes, i do see the hurt there. And i just die a little inside.