She keeps warning me about the disease and the responsibility I will be taking on as the disease progresses if we marry. Currently for various reasons we both have more stress in our lives than should be necessary to bear. Much of what I read makes me believe stress increases the flare ups exponentially. My dream is to remove much of the stress in our lives, I love to give massages but know I can't massage her every day. She insists that if her legs, which are bothering her more lately than ever, don't get better and that if it is a progression of the FM she will not marry me and will not allow me to have to take on that responsibility. We are both in our 40's and it will be a second marriage for both of us. Any advice?