There is a woman I know (I know her husband better) who recently got her disability. She works 3 days a week under the table providing light elder care and she walks two times a day for about 30 minutes each session. Every time I see her she is going somewhere, her hair and makeup are perfectly done, and her husband tells me she cooks pretty much every night. When I said to her hubby, "that's great!! maybe she will be able to return to work someday" he said no because she still has to take a three hour nap each evening. Is this mean of me to wonder how the hell she got disability?? Is this nothing more than petty jealousy? I just know that it takes me sometimes an hour just to vacuum a room because I keep having to stop to rest and yet I am still waiting to get before a judge, and even then it wont be easy because I am only 40. I rarely do my hair and makeup because its takes too much energy. And I cant even tell you the last time I went somewhere just for fun, let alone on a regular basis. Why does this picture just seem so wrong to me.