My son is in band and plans to go to college for music (ever since he was 5 he knew Because I am not always dependable I try to volunteer where I can and my husband is very good about going to meetings without me when I can't. He also volunteers. Last year I volunteered to put together an email list (250 entries) so that I could send out mass emails to contribute to the boosters. However, in hotmail, I was cut off and could only send out 10 at a time and then was totally cut off. I am now using my own email and it seems to be ok, but this year with new kids and others dropping off the list needs to be changed, etc. There is another girl who loves doing things like this and I am considering asking her to do it this year. My husband wants me to do it but it has become a real point of stress for me. I want to ask this person to take it over for me and feel fine about doing it and I (surprisingly) don't feel like a failure even though I never quit anything because of being a perfectionist, but I have changed since this DD has gotten worse. I'm thinking that I should volunteer in a different way and not in a way that I feel overwhelmed. What do you think? mentally and physically I have become very weak and filled with anxiety to the point that I have a hard time going to the meetings because I am afraid that they will ask me to send out emails and I don't have the list prepared and need to interact too much. Please help me with any advise you can. Thanks.