I am going directly to the sourse since you all will understand better than anyone. My husband has hinted about his 94 yer old mother moving in with us. It's about all I can do to work 8 hours a day and take of my rsponsibilities here at home without another person here. My mother in law speaks little or no english and is very demanding. My husband is an only child, and I am also. She prefers her ethnic food over "American" - so that will cause a lot of stress along with everything else. I know if she comes here everything will be on me. My mother in law lives alone and has for the last 30 years. Quite frankly, she is in better health than my husband and me. We do have someone who comes in to help her 3 days a week. I think he is just tired of making the 10 mile trip every way to "run her errands". She can think of a million reasons why he needs to go there - and he goes. He knows I don't feel well most of the time, but feels she won't last forever... Guess what, neither will I. Please give me your thoughts or some helpful advise to squash this idea. Many thanks!!