Has anyone's husband or wife ever gotten a letter from SSD wanting them to fill out a long form about your life and daily activities. The first time I filed my husband didn't get this. They sent him one yesterday. I am hoping they didn't send my mother one. She and my husband are the contact names I put on the form that asked for the names of two people who could confirm that I am disabled. I know my mom loves me and does know I am sick, but if she is critical of my daily lifestyle then I don't know how she will come across in a letter/form to SSD. They will pounce upon any criticism even if she thinks it is constructive. Should I talk to her about it and ask if she got the form? Things are really different this time in my filing. They have been more attentive to me and sent me many more forms to fill out and called me numerous times to make sure I fill out the forms and do phone interview. I don't know if this is a good sign or if they have just gotten better trained employees. I was sherrie but my name is changed now. Thank you for reading this.