I was recently diagnosed with CFIDS and depression. I think that I had depression for a long time prior but it is worse with CFIDS. My husband is the only person I can talk to about the illness because no one else seems to understand or care. I was hoping to find a niche in here somewhere with people who understand that I can vent to besides always unloading on my husband. By the way, what is bumping and how do you do it?