May 19, Living our Lives

Discussion in 'Fibromyalgia Main Forum' started by usanagirl, May 18, 2006.

  1. usanagirl

    usanagirl New Member

    Dont' stop living your life!

    So often, when a problem occurs, inside or around us, we revert to thinking that if we put our life on hold we can positively contribute to the solution. If a relationship isn't working, if we face a difficult decision, if we're feeling depressed, we may put our life on hold and torment ourselves with obsessive thoughts.

    Abandoning our life or routines contributes to the problem and delays us from finding the solution. Frequently, the solution comes when we let go enough to live our life, return to our routine, and stop obsssing about the problem.

    Sometimes, even if we don't feel like we have let go or can let go, we can "act as if" we have, and that will help bring about the letting go we desire.

    You don't have to give up your power to problems. You can take your focus off your problem and direct it to your life, trusting that doing so will bring you closer to a solution.

    Today, I will go on living my life and tending to my routine. I will decide, as often as I need to, to stop obsessing about whatever is bothering me. If I don't feel like letting go of a particular thing, I will "act as if" I have let go of it until my feelings match my behavior.

    Have a blessed day! :)
  2. Pianowoman

    Pianowoman New Member

    You have given us much to think about in the last few days.I so appreciate being reminded that life goes on and that there are ways that we can change our thinking to make it easier.


    Have a good day.
    Kathy